A lot of Asian guys fail in dating attractive women that they desire and many will come to believe that the reason for their failures is down to racism. There’s some truth to that. The media has certainly done it’s part in portraying these negative stereotypes about Asian men as either geeks or kung fu masters with 10 words of English. However, that doesn’t mean that you should settle for less as an Asian man dating white women. There are many Asian men who do very well with women of all races.
The real, down to earth, truth is that race matters to everyone. Women have eyes, they notice that you are Asian and that you don’t look ‘white’ and some women are just not attracted to Asians. Many girls are not into white or black guys either. That is the minority though. Yes, the majority of women do not decide on whom they date based on race.
The truth is that many Asian men have simply convinced themselves that there is no way a white girl will want to be with them. With that mindset, it’s easy to see why they fail. Perhaps, they have grown up in quite conservative families and are used to fit in and take on the role they think is expected of them. Too bad that role isn’t getting them any women. It’s sad that there are so many Asian guys who would make great boyfriends, that are cheating girls out of the opportunity to be with them, simply because they have these limiting beliefs.
The only way to change for most guys is to actually have their limiting beliefs disproved right before their eyes. Find an Asian guy who is very successful with women, someone who can mentor and show by their actions and results that limiting beliefs are stupid. Someone who can once and for all shatter these thoughts. If you have money, say a few thousand dollars, then there are several Asian dating coaches who are willing to teach you how to become a charming, attractive man who gets the women he desires.
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